hi Mr / Mrs "6" & "Jelly",
good day.
1. both of you got your right points, i really apprciate your feedbacks and should learn from you.
2. actually, my chinese is quite terrible, especially in term of salutation, i got no means in hurting anyone.
3. i do agree that yours sayings in terms of changing, this meant also that we got to accept as / if things and people changed when times passed.
4. explaination to your quiries, please back to earlier points -> nothing is 100% "right" or 100% "wrong".
- as it's about motives -> yours motives, madam "shi"'s (sorry again if i put wrongly), and mine.
- and in this case, why & what's madam "shi" aims for? why & what's my replies for? what's & why the web-host looking for? what's & why yours standing for?
(irregardless of which "what's & why", it's doesn't matter anymore now.)
5. thank you to madam and the "7" web-host again as to provide us the chances to express our points of view freely here, as madam, as you, as others, and, as mine.
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5. once, i respect madam "shi" for her energies, her braveness, her determination, especially during her involvement in politics, as she succeedly shown herself as a "modern"+"smart"+"brave"+"beautiful"+"successful" WOMAN.
6. furthermore, it's allowing all of us great chances to learn from this case, which the situations had shown that:
*people from different perspectives got different point of views, as long as we are able to get learnt and benefited from itself, it's worths! or else, there's no points for all the points sharing (it's not arguement and not personal attack).
*people getting chances to be brave to sharing the invaluable thoughts, to defend for their believes, and to learn to be opened and accepting others' opinions.
people knowning others, people learning from each others' experiences, and most importantly, people growing.
last but not the least, i would like to apologize for any inconveniences caused and i regret if i had hurt any feelings.
wish you all the best and may your dreams come true.
goodbye!!